Sometime around 1912 the Skull family moved to 3, Lucas Road. The houses along this road were relatively new, most having been built in the early 1900s. Certainly Mr and Mrs Skull thought it to be a very new house indeed and Mr Skull took his children across the road to see yet more houses being built on the land opposite. The children thought this was great fun, peering into windows and climbing up ladders, but when one of them nearly fell off Mr Skull asked them not to tell their mother where they had been in case she told them all off. Now that sounds very much like today doesn’t it?
Mr and Mrs Skull probably started their married life a little further up Amersham Hill in a large house called Enderley. Here is a picture of Enderley (see photograph below) – if you are local to Wycombe do you think you can recognise which house it could be? This is where Mr Skull’s parents lived. Wycombe people used to say ‘the further up the hill you live the posher you are’ – what do you think? The Skulls were furniture makers in High Wycombe and their chairs can still be seen in the Wycombe Museum. They were furniture makers for four generations!
Mr and Mrs Skull moved to Number 3, Lucas Road with their two children – Charles and Beth – and they called their new home Chasbeth after the children. After they had moved there, and settled in, they had two more children – Arthur and Ruth. But only Beth was ever called Beth, as the others all had nicknames. Charles was called Boy because he was the first child to be born and Mr Skull would come home from work and ask how the boy was, or where was the boy? (or much more likely, ‘what has that boy been up to today?’) and in the end he just became known as Boy. You couldn’t really shorten the name Beth (unless you were christened Elizabeth and she wasn’t) so she kept the same name. Arthur looked just like the boy in the Pear’s soap advert (the one with the soap bubbles – see if you can find it in the library) and so he became known as Bubbles and Ruth didn’t like her name one bit so, after she had her baby hair cut into a bob (which was very fashionable at the time), she was called Bobby. So when Mrs Skull wanted to call the children for breakfast or tea she would just stand at the bottom of the stairs and yell ‘Boybethbubblesbobby’ and down they would all come. Mrs Skull was quite deaf and so the children could be quite noisy because she couldn’t hear what they were up to, but she was quite good at knowing when they were doing something that they shouldn’t!
Despite her deafness (one of Mrs Skull’s sisters tried to clean her ears for her and damaged her ear
drum – so don’t you try and do that!) Mrs Skull still enjoyed playing the piano which was in the drawing room.She
also had a roll top desk in here (a wedding present from Mr Skull) and a table
where the children could play card games with their father – but they weren’t normally
allowed in here unless an adult was with them. It sounds just the same as many
houses are today but there are one or two items of furniture missing – can you think what they could be?
Here is a letter which he wrote to his parents when he was eight years old.
Mrs Skull was not very well because she had trouble with her kidneys and so she had two maids
to help her in the house and to look after the children. Giving birth to children in
those days was still a risky and painful business and women often suffered ill
health as a result. The maids were sisters and they slept in the back
bedroom at the very top of the house. Because Mrs Skull was ill it was decided
to send Bubbles away to boarding school as soon as he was old enough. He was
very homesick and so one day he ran away from the school and hid in the
woods near Amersham Hill (though there aren't as many trees there now). He managed to contact Bobby who
promised to keep his hide-away a secret and she wrapped up some food from the larder and
took it to him so that he woudn't be hungry. No doubt Mrs Skull noticed that the
food was missing and their secret was discovered. Bubbles didn't want to go back
to the school so it was arranged that he and Bobby would both go to a new
school together. Until then Bobby had been attending Wycombe Preparatory
School behind the Baptist church, and before that a little school run in the
home of Miss Weston at Town House (now a toy shop) in Castle Street. Bobby didn't
mind going to boarding school with Bubbles and it turned out to be a very
good solution because Mrs Skull's sister (who was a nurse in Egypt)
thought that it would do Mrs Skull good to have a nice holiday in Egypt
to make her health better. So Bobby and Bubbles went off to boarding
school together and everyone was happy. Here is a photograph taken
of Bobby and Bubbles with their mother.
Because all the children went to boarding school they didn’t really have a
bedroom they could call their own at Chasbeth, they just used whichever one was free at
the time. I don’t expect many children would put up with this arrangement
nowadays do you? Of course schooling was very different then because
‘education for all’ was still relatively new and those that could afford it preferred to send
their children to be privately educated because the facilities were usually
of a higher standard. Mr Skull wanted his children to have a good boarding
school education because he felt it showed that he had reached a certain
status in life and could afford the best for his family.
Mr Skull didn’t have a car because car ownership was still relatively new. The house
hadn’t even been built with a garage because builders in those days
didn’t realise how popular the car was going to become! Instead the family had to rely on
lifts from friends (whose parents had cars) or get the bus or train. However,
it also meant that the children never got to come home during term time and rarely saw their parents.
But when they did come back they found lots to do. They had a donkey at the end
of the garden which they called Christopher Percy. (The garden was a lot
longer in those days because the house at the end hadn’t been built
then – there simply wasn’t such a need for building land in those days). Here is
a picture of Bubbles sitting on Christopher Percy, with Bobby and Beth
standing behind.
Now Christopher Percy was also the name of the verger of the local church where Mr Skull
worshipped regularly. Mr Skull didn’t like the verger very much – they had had an argument, I think, and so they called
the donkey Christopher Percy after the verger. The verger didn’t
know about this until he visited one day and Bobby told him what the donkey’s
name was. She was only little and didn’t know the story about the verger and the argument – but
she soon found out because the verger was very offended when he learnt
that Mr Skull had named the donkey after him!
The children were allowed to play all over the garden but they were not allowed to
pick the apples off the fruit trees, which were very plentiful. If their father caught them he would be very
cross – unless he gave them his permission to pick them first. And they weren’t
allowed just to have a bite of the apple. They had to eat the whole
lot up! here is a photograph of Bubbles, Bobby, Beth and their cousin
Dorothy playing in the branches of the tree that used to grown in the
front garden.
There was a special den in the back garden which they called the dug-out. It was a fairly large dip in the ground, (about
a foot deep, and at least one boy long on all four sides) which Bubbles and his
friends had dug so that they could hide from one another by lying on their
tummies. Perhaps they got the idea from the trenches used in the First World
War – what do you think? They all had fun in the dug-out and made their camps
there.
Bubbles and Bobby both had their share of illness and accidents. Bubbles managed to get a
garden fork stuck through his foot when he was out playing in the garden and had to have it
taken out very slowly and very painfully. He wasn’t allowed
to cry because Mr Skull believed that boys had to be very grown-up about things like
that. Bobby felt very sorry for Bubbles and took care of him and the two of them were
always very good friends to one another. Bobby had
tonsillitis and when it wouldn’t get better the doctor
decided that she would have to have her tonsils taken out. They didn’t take you away to
hospital in those days – she had them taken out on the kitchen table!
The
family had a little dog called Stumpy Wag (because he didn’t have a tail, just a waggy stump – here's a photograph
of him) and a cat. One day when Bobby was in bed the cat crept
under the bedclothes and made a nice home for herself by
Bobby’s toes. When Bobby woke up she had a BIG surprise –
the cat had had kittens whilst Bobby had been asleep. Mr Skull took the
cat and her kittens downstairs to the kitchen as soon as he found out what had
happened. The kitchen was a nice homely room (except for when you were
having your tonsils removed), as there was always something happening in there,
like washing or baking, and the children would like to lick the cake mixture out of
the mixing bowl. Mrs Skull made a lovely fruit cake which the children
called ‘Kill-Me-Quick’ because if you ate too much you
would feel very full indeed.
The children all had friends in the local Wycombe area and the friends would
call round to play in the garden and then they would go and play in each other’s houses. At the end of
the back garden at Chasbeth was the dividing fence between the Skulls and the Bellamys. Mr Bellamy
allowed the Skull children to climb over his fence and to play in his garden. The house adjoining No 3
on the right was owned by the Harris family and then it was sold to the Rivetts. (Jimmy Rivett grew up to
own Murrays department store in the town centre. It was a very popular shop until it was taken over by the Octagon shopping
centre). The Ercolanis also lived nearby and their children would play in the
garden with the Skull children. Their father, like the Skulls, was a furniture
manufacturer and his family became well known for making Ercol chairs.
But Bobby’s best friend was Stella Chubb who lived on the corner by the woods.
There was also another little girl called Aileen who lived on the opposite side
of Amersham Hill (near Godstowe School). Not all their friends went away to boarding school but a lot of them
did. That’s why Enid Blyton’s books about boarding
school life became so popular, it was the experience that many children
shared in those days.
Here are the Skull family on holiday at the seaside. Bobby’s school teacher was a friend of the
family so she went with them. Can you imagine taking your school teacher away on holiday with you?
(She looks quite friendly though.) In the back row is Mrs Skull, Miss Weston the school
teacher and Mr Skull, then Beth and Auntie Flossie and then Bobby, Bubbles and
Boy in the front. There was usually a photographer on the beach in those days
because many people didn’t have a camera of their own. Indeed many
families couldn't afford to go away on holiday at all because their
father's (and mother's) wouldn't have been given holiday pay like they
are today. They had to save up all year to pay for the
holiday and also for the money that they would need to cover their bills for the
week that they weren't working. Mrs Skull and the children also enjoyed horse
riding (they used to stay on a farm in Norfolk for their holidays when they weren't holidaying by the seaside) and
Bobby had her first pair of jodhpurs made for her in the tailors shop in High Wycombe. (There is a special reason
for mentioning this which you will find out later.)
Sometimes they
would visit
their cousins and their Auntie Maud who lived just off the London Road
at a
house called Stuart Lodge (they loved playing under the eaves of the
attic), or
they might visit their Auntie Nellie and Uncle Fred who lived in one of
the
houses facing the Rye (they’re the ones in the wedding photo
in the museum).
This aunt and uncle later moved to Bassetsbury Manor and when Bobby was
a bit older she would play
tennis there with her cousins. As
Bobby grew older she would run errands for her mother and would walk
down through the fields to the corner shop. The fields were full of
cows in those days. One day the shop
owner remarked how brave she was to walk past all those cows on her own
and
after that Bobby was always frightened of taking that walk (he was
trying to
make her feel grown-up but adults can say some very silly things
without
thinking can’t they?) Or sometimes she would go shopping with
her
mother in
Wycombe town centre. In the summer the children would go to West Wycombe and grass
toboggan down the steep
hillside by the Mausoleum. They
would
buy fizzy lemonade from the sweet shop at the bottom. The lemonade came in glass bottles with a
glass marble in the top to keep the fizziness in. Sometimes they would
go
swimming in the open air pool along the Oxford Road (which
isn’t there
now) or cycle further afield to the River Thames. When Bubbles was old
enough
he bought a motorbike and would give Bobby lifts on the back of it but
he had a
bad accident and Mr and Mrs Skull were very relieved when he bought a
car. Now the family
had the chance to travel in
style and Bubbles became their driver. (And he probably helped to build the first garage at
Chasbeth).
Here
is a picture of Bubbles with Beth's husband Eric. They were
seeing who had the knobbliest knees - who do you think won? By now Bobby
was almost grown-up. Unfortunately the
family business had run
into difficulties
and Mr Skull was forced to sell his factory to Ercol. This meant that money was quite tight and the
family had to manage without
many of the luxuries that they had become used
to. Bobby
couldn’t go away to college
like her older sister, Beth, had done. Instead
she had to find a job and so she
became an assistant school matron and a PE teacher – she was
very good at
sports. Then a London
secretarial college was evacuated to Amersham (it was the late 1930s
and people
didn’t want to live in London
because they were frightened
of being bombed if there was going to be
another
war). Bobby went to stay with some cousins who lived next door to the
new
college and she finally had the chance to train as a secretary. After
her
training she went to work in London
but then the Second World War was declared. She was standing by the Thames
when the first bombs
dropped on the docks – it was very frightening. Now
Chasbeth was very empty. All
the children had left home and there was no need to keep a house
that was so large. Mrs Skull was still
ill and the thought of having to look after evacuees from London
– who would be billeted in the empty rooms –
worried her so much that it was
decided that they should sell the house and move into a flat further
down Amersham
Hill. Mr Skull also thought it was a good idea to sell the house
because the
family needed the money. Unfortunately
large houses were difficult to sell at that time because nobody was
very keen
to take in evacuees so it was sold for less than its true value. If you
were
asked to share your house with a
strange family today how do you think you’d
feel? They may not look after your toys as well as you do.
Here is a photograph of the family taken in the front garden of Chasbeth only a
few years before they moved. The little baby is Boy's first child and
she is now
an OAP!
Bobby became a WAAF officer in the war (she was
nicknamed Bonesey – can you think why?) but she
came back to visit her parents whenever she could. They finally moved to
an aunt’s house at the
end of Birdcage Walk, just by the tunnel that goes under the railway. It was called Rydal Mount. See if you can find it one
day. After the war
they moved to Queen’s Road but that house has since been
pulled down to make way for new homes.
The Second
World War changed many people’s lives but they
had to get used to living with these changes whether they wanted to or
not. Luckily Bobby
and her two brothers
and sister all survived the War but sadly one of her cousins (the
little boy
standing behind Bubbles in Grandpa Skull’s family photograph)
was killed in the
Fleet Air Arm and her cousin Ian (the one who pulled her hair) was
taken a prisoner
of war – but he managed to escape and had many exciting tales
to tell of his
adventures. After
the war Bobby
came back to High Wycombe and got married – to the tailor who fitted her out in her
first pair of jodhpurs
all those years before. And they lived happily ever after. Sally Scagell Peace
2005
If you want to
find
out more about the tailor then read Tally-man, Tailor, Soldier,
Peace – Tales from
Tailoring Or if
you’d like to learn more about the tailor’s family
then read The Peace Family of Castle
Hill – Fragments of Memory If you want to
find out more about Bobby’s grandfather then
read The Skulls – the
Skeleton in the Cupboard If you want to
find out about what happened to Bobby after
she got married then read A 1950s and 1960s Childhood
written by her
daughter If you want to
find out about Bobby’s aunt and uncle then
read Bassetsbury Manor –
A Recent History And finally, if
you want to learn about growing up in
Wycombe before the time of television and computers read The Butcher, the Tailor, the
Candlestick Maker
Every minute of every day we create another piece of history
– what’s yours?
In the hall, was a grandfather clock and a table with a drawer where they would store their gloves.
They used to put their outdoor shoes and wellingtons in the area under the stairs where
there was a hand basin for washing their hands before lunch, and they would
hang their coats in a cupboard next to the kitchen. The
house was heated by real fires in the main rooms and there was a large
range in the kitchen which kept the room nice and cosy. The
bedrooms would not have been kept so warm so it was common for children
to have chamber pots beneath the bed (or in a potty cupboard) so that
they didn't have to go into freezing cold bathrooms during the night.
In 1914 the
First World War broke out and soldiers were moved to High Wycombe in preparation
for war. They trained on the Rye and were billeted in the houses all around. Mrs Skull had soldiers billeted on her and when
Bobby was born in 1918 the soldiers loved to cuddle her and make her laugh as she reminded
them of their own children that they had had to leave back at home. Here is a photograph of Bobby in her
pram.
By this time Boy, and possibly Beth, had gone
to boarding school so there would have been enough beds for everyone. Boy was not a very healthy
child and he was sent to school away from all the smoke of the factories in the Wycombe
valley – which had a lot of tall chimneys in those days from the paper mills.
During the war the Skull factory made aircraft. The
planes were made of wood in those days so the furniture workers turned
their skills to making planes instead of chairs. Sadly, Bobby’s
older cousin, Donald, was killed in this war – he was an Observer in the Royal Flying Corps. His family later lived at
Castle Hill, now Wycombe Museum. You can see a picture of him if you go into the museum kitchen. Look
for the photo on the wall of the wedding party of Bobby’s Auntie Nellie and Uncle Fred and the little
boy sitting on the ground is Donald. The photograph was taken at Castle Hill when the house
was owned by Donald's grandfather, Mr Peace. Here is a small part of
that photograph – Donald is sitting in front of Mr Skull who
is second from the left. He was twenty one when he died and his grave
is in France. It was very dangerous to be in the Flying Corps in those
days as you weren’t allowed to have a parachute! The
Government thought that if your plane was shot at and you had a way to escape then you
would probably take that option rather than to try and save the
plane. As a result many young airmen were killed – records
show that some airmen had only a one week life expectancy once they
began flying over enemy territory.
Sometimes Bobby and her brothers and sister would visit their grandfather at Enderley. Their grandmother had died
the year that Bobby was born and Grandpa Skull was quite lonely and so they would visit him
in his large house at the top of the hill. Their Auntie Mabel, Uncle Dougie and
their cousin Ian, all lived with Grandpa. Bobby and Ian would often play games
together. Ian
liked pulling Bobby along
on the slippery wooden hall floor at Enderley – but Bobby
wasn’t so
keen on
this game because Ian used to pull her along by tugging on her hair!
Can you recognise Bubbles and Bobby in this photograph taken with their
cousins at Grandpa Skull's house. Ian is the little boy in
the
back row, standing between Boy and Beth. He was naughty and wouldn't
stay still for the photograph and the photogrpaher had to stick his
picture in later - but you can't tell can you?